不是话少不是冷漠，只是没必要对每个人都有说有笑。Its not a little talk.not indifference.but theres no need to laugh and talk to everyone。我和你的区别在于：你在等伞，在等雨停。The difference between you and me is that you are waiting for the umbrella.and I am waiting for the rain to stop。凡是先讨好自己至于别人分交情看心情。Usually please yourself first.as for others.divide friendship.see mood。