Love is a permanent topic in human history. There are endless beautiful love stories we know. But in my opinion, I don’t believe in love at first sight. At least I won’t fall in love with anybody when I first see him. Compared with that, I prefer to believe in love created by long association. At first sight of someone, you may be attracted by his or her appearance, dressing and other external things. But it doesn’t necessarily mean that you have fallen in love with him or her. Love is the approaching of two hearts with days passing by in which period the man and the woman get well known to each other, appreciate each other and attract each other. Gradually each one of them has become part of the other. Therefore, love is based on the understanding and toleration of his or her strengths and weakness. Love at first sight can’t do it so that the love is easily broken up.
Love cannot be forced. If you love a person but unfortunately the person doesn’t love you even though you have made every effort to get his or her heart, then you’d better give up. If you still cluster your love, you may well interfere with his or her life, which is not true love because loving a person is to let him or her live a happy life and your giving up is the best way to love. Vice versa, faced with a person who loves you but you don’t, then tell him or her honestly. Only two people who love each other can live happily together.
