
To the English learner, how to become seccessful in intercultural communication is so important. Because English is a tool of communication. Only when you can use it to communicate with others, you can say “I am successful in communication.”
After I looked for many document literatures, I know something about the intercultural communication. Among them, the five tips is the key to do it.
Key 1: Strike a Balance Between Commonality and Difference
Key 2: Find Variety Within Variety
Key 3: Adapt to Different Cultural Rules
Key 4: Widen Our Communication Repertoire
Key 5: Adopt a “Both/And” Mentality for Success
Both of them are related to commonality and difference, it means the two points are the crucial points.
Communication is about cultures, but different countries have different culture. If you want to communicate with foreigners, you should first learn about the country’s culture. From the culture or the history, you will know the different cultural rules and find vatiety within variety, and then strike a balance between commonality and difference to widen our communication repertoire.
Working across cultures brings challenges and sometimes frustration to our work environment, but we are rewarded for our efforts through the richness of differences. In today’s marketplace, the best framework by which to operate is one of “both/and” rather than “either/or.” When two cultures work together, the question often arises, “Who should adapt to whom?” There is a saying in Japanese that loosely translates to “incorrect question.” Perhaps a more effective set of questions would be:
•How should we adapt to each other?
•How can we leverage our differences to meet our common goals?
•What creative solutions can we offer to the organization? What challenges might we face as a multicultural workforce?”
When we move beyond the “either/or” mentality to one that encompasses “both/and,” we enter into endless possibilities for enriching relationships across cultures. If one day, we meet a Japanese, but we are Chinese, we have to say “hello” to express our friendly not to say “你好”. Because though Chinese has the largest number of speakers, English is the world’s most commonly used language. So English act as a role of bridge.
So it is the mentality for success to be a successful communication experts.
